Curiosity leads us to truth, but that truth isn’t always pretty. In fact, it’s often a nightmare—raw, ugly, and exposing. When we face our deepest truths, we confront parts of ourselves we’ve tried to hide, even from our own awareness.
I’ve learned through my entrepreneurial journey that avoiding truth is the surest path to stagnation. The most significant growth happens when we stop running from what makes us uncomfortable and instead turn to face it head-on.
Truth has a way of dragging out our rot—those festering beliefs, habits, and wounds we’ve buried. It pulls us into deep water where we can’t touch bottom. This feeling of being untethered is terrifying, but necessary for transformation.
The Power of Confronting Your Truth
When we avoid truth, we create distance between ourselves and reality. This gap becomes filled with anxiety, doubt, and fear. By contrast, when we embrace truth—however painful—we close this gap and find solid ground.
The process isn’t comfortable. Truth-seeking requires:
- Courage to look at what you’d rather ignore
- Willingness to feel uncomfortable emotions
- Honesty about your role in your circumstances
- Vulnerability with yourself and others
This work is challenging but essential. In building multiple businesses, I’ve had to confront hard truths about my leadership, my decisions, and my limitations. Each confrontation, though difficult, has strengthened my foundation.
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The Liberation of Letting Go
Once you’ve faced your truth, the next step is equally important: let it go. Whatever you discover about yourself or your situation, forgiveness is the path forward.
Forgive yourself for mistakes. Forgive yourself for not knowing better. Forgive yourself for the time you’ve spent avoiding this truth. This isn’t about excusing harmful behavior but about releasing the grip that shame and regret have on your present.
Letting go creates space for growth. When I sold my first company, I had to let go of both my mistakes and my attachment to how I thought things “should” have gone. This release wasn’t immediate—it was a practice I returned to daily.
The Power of Presence
The final piece of this puzzle is presence. When you’re truly present, the weight of the past and anxiety about the future dissolve. You’re right here, right now.
Presence is both the means and the end. It allows you to:
- See truth clearly without distortion
- Feel emotions without being overwhelmed
- Make decisions from clarity rather than reaction
- Experience life directly rather than through mental filters
I practice presence daily, and it remains my most powerful tool for navigating business challenges and personal growth. When I’m fully here, problems become simpler, and solutions emerge naturally.
A Continuous Practice
This cycle—seeking truth, letting go, and being present—isn’t something you do once. It’s a continuous practice that becomes more natural with time.
The beauty is that each time you move through this cycle, you build resilience. What once felt like drowning in deep water becomes swimming with confidence. The truths that seemed unbearable become stepping stones.
I’ve watched this transformation in myself and in the entrepreneurs I mentor. Those who embrace this practice inevitably find greater success—not just in business metrics, but in satisfaction, purpose, and impact.
So be curious. Face your truth, however ugly. Let the rot be exposed. Feel yourself in deep water. Then let it go. Forgive yourself. Be present. Right here, right now. Whatever it is, let it go.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: How do I know when I’m avoiding an important truth?
Look for recurring patterns in your life, emotional reactions that seem disproportionate, or areas where you feel defensive. Physical signs like tension, avoidance behaviors, or procrastination often signal we’re sidestepping a truth that needs attention.
Q: What if the truth I’m facing involves other people who aren’t ready to acknowledge it?
Focus on your part of the equation. You can only control your response and actions. Sometimes others aren’t ready to face the same truths you are, and that’s okay. Your clarity and presence will naturally shift dynamics, even if others don’t immediately join you in truth-seeking.
Q: How can I practice being more present in my daily life?
Start with small moments of awareness throughout your day. Notice your breathing, the sensations in your body, or the details of your environment. When you catch your mind wandering to past or future, gently bring it back to now. Consistency matters more than duration—five minutes of true presence several times daily can transform your experience.
Q: Is there a difference between letting go and giving up?
Absolutely. Letting go is releasing attachment to outcomes, emotions, or stories that no longer serve you. Giving up is abandoning something you value because of difficulty or fear. Letting go creates freedom and clarity; giving up creates regret and unresolved feelings.
Q: What if I face my truth and feel worse instead of better?
This is normal and temporary. Facing difficult truths often feels worse before it feels better—like cleaning an infected wound. The discomfort is part of the healing process. Stay with it, seek support if needed, and remember that this phase will pass as you move through the complete cycle of truth, release, and presence.
